Tuesday, August 1, 2023

It came in waves (a Covid memoir)










It came in waves..

crashing over my body

hitting it with thousands of needles

piercing my skin all over

numbing my limbs, my fingertips, my toes

when the life washing waves would recede 

the sharp pins would be left in me

like metals holding strong in hot lava

sweat washing over me 

the feeling of fire mixed with ice

a bittersweet reminder

that I could still feel

even when my numb limbs

couldn’t walk

or even sit

even when my cracked cold lips

couldn’t gather enough strength

to form a word, let alone talk

or even chew at times

breathing freely

came only as a luxury

tears came rolling down 

each one attempting to release

a bit of the pain and fear

the dark heavy kind that I had

never experienced before


When the waves calmed..


my body..

felt like a sack of potatoes

crushed under passing trucks

on a never ending highway

I could feel the weight of their tires

all over my neck and back

I was sinking

in a bed of quicksand

holding on to a branch 

of foggy memories and dreams

flashing before my eyes


my head..

not the usual heaviest migraine bowling ball

but a cracked open version

one that just rolls into the gutter

without hitting a single pin

feeling my pulse

like hammers on the sides of my head

numbed momentarily by the flow of

cold ice packs and wet towels

thinking, was a luxury

I didn’t have

I knew that this pain 

was one that I had to endure

for days to come


my heart..

swollen and constrained in a small chamber

beating as bold as a kick drum

as fast as a sprint runner at the finishing line

fighting with each beat

against a well known intruder

held at the gates

for more than three years

now finally breaking the gate

and entering with revenge

shattering every defensive wall built by

what I thought of as good nutrition

five vaccines

and a good lifestyle

and taking my independence

and my pride

as war souvenirs


he kept saying:

“The first day was the hardest..”

then I remember she said to me: 

“Mommy hang in there!

The day is almost over!”

I turned my neck slowly

enough to the left

to take a glance at the clock

it was only 4:15

time was as blurry

as my vision 


aside from nature

giving me another chance

my family saved me

even though some

weren’t physically present

from drowning in my own tears 

from letting go of that branch

which was much stronger

than I could have ever understood

in my lowest blood pressure

threatening to collapse me

to the ground


I thought I was invincible

that I had an invisible, protective

motherly shield

but now I know..

that shield can break into pieces

right before my eyes

and I would have to 

crawl over the floor

without my glasses

without my strength

or even hope at times

to look for

every little piece

to put it together again

in some shape or form..


..feels good to be born again.

Thursday, November 17, 2016

Tomorrow comes













back and forth
just let me float
just let me in
answer my call
I just fell off my goddamn boat

tomorrow comes
our hopes might fade
tomorrow storms
our hearts might turn inside out

thoughts weaken
in the darkness of the night
they wake me
they move me
they terrify the hell out of me

what if we wake up?
what if it cracks?
what if it all shatters to the ground?

from the broken
from my fears
give rise to my sunshine
give wings to my highs

bolden and brighten
let that blinding light in
let the shadows follow but not lead
sing




Thursday, September 1, 2016

Changing my point of view












your streets

filled with life
filled with colors and lights
over and under
around a ring

water
running through your veins
swaying and reflecting

your curves
filled with memories
like bubbles floating around
and disappearing

I take a ride down your lane
down your way of life
and your vitality
your imagination
and your edge

I take a breath
and your air smells like home
I take a sip of your elixir
and it fills my soul
with exotic music

I come alive with you
I walk through you
and feel your electric skin
under my dry, thirsty feet

I never left you
you never said goodbye
you evolve
you inspire
you keep your floor open all night
for every dance move
in any color and every shape

We never left you
we never said goodbye
keep sitting around
and sipping on your beer
keep cycling around
and letting the wind
dance in your hair
keep staying awake all night
and dissolving time
like only you can do

thank you
for being a part of me
and letting me be a part of you
thank you
for changing my point of view


Thursday, June 23, 2016

Don't spill your hope












my head feels like a hostage
pulsing with pain
my words are tortured
my thoughts are tied up

each drawer that opens and closes
is thunder and storm
every hint of light is a flashlight
burning into my eyes

life is on hold
motherhood suffers the most
waking up free
with no pain
is a luxury and a blessing
something to celebrate
something to look forward to..

hey, strong head
don't give in
don't spill your hope
don't give up responsibility
rise and smile

play it down
this game is old
this process is overdone
no matter how many years
no matter how many times
turn it around
the pain is your hostage
seize it, question it, know it
and then free it
breathe..

Thursday, June 16, 2016

I wake to your smile
















I had a bad dream
I dreamt that our lego houses
were getting knocked over by strange planes
the colors were disappearing from our drawings
our free bubbles were getting stuck behind tall walls
and the beautiful butterflies in the park were losing their wings

but luckily, I wake..

I wake to your smile
what a joy to see

I wake to your embrace
sunshine in your eyes

I wake to your kindness
dancing through your hair

I wake to your peace
a true sense of life

I wake to your world
for your heart is the best reminder
of how pure
our nature can be
if only..

Thursday, May 19, 2016

When you left


when you left
an old familiar knot formed again
down in my throat
and around my heart

the walls
started closing in on me

the trees
started letting go of their green leaves

I felt like a tiny fish
trapped in a small closed net
deep down in the ocean

I would walk
and my feet would feel every step

I would sit
and the chair would pull me in

I would lie down
and feel bricks
stacked on my heart
pushing down

the realization
that you were gone
and the fragility
of our bodies and our lives
kept slapping me in the face


I wanted to place you somewhere
in an old vibrant childhood memory
where you would go on laughing and laughing
but the memory kept crashing on the ground
like tiny soft flowers hitting hard concrete

the land of my childhood
now seemed worlds away
and impossible to reach

my long arms
had never felt so short

my vivid and clear vision
was now blurry and foggy

pain was there
and there might be more
much more
with deeper scars

and now
I would have to wear this scar
in my heart
not knowing how many more
there would be
and how much more
I would be able to endure.

Wednesday, April 27, 2016

A laughter with wings












I kept looking outside
from the balcony window
but the leaves
just did not look the same
the colors had changed
they seemed simplified
they seemed like they were in a hurry
they seemed worried
they seemed scared

The playground
did not look the same
it seemed so empty
it seemed so grey and flat
it seemed so fragile
it seemed like it was falling apart

I started hearing the sound of his laughter
everywhere I went
he had a unique laughter
that seemed like it was coming
right from his stomach
and through his heart
a laughter with wings
that would fly around the room
and sit on everyone's shoulder
so true
so free

It embraced me
the familiar and warm sound of his laughter
a well kept gem from my childhood
it was what I could hold onto
to compose myself
it started dancing between the leaves
that had changed color on me
It started coloring the playground again
and putting it back together

tears
were an escape
a way to undo the tight knot
a bridge across the miles
to connect with those that are in great pain
much more than I can possibly feel
or even imagine

tears
I had to let go of only one
out of a hundred
in order to try to maintain
a picture of the world
for my daughter
that I got to look at for many years
a picture
that my parents kept for me
unhindered
unharmed
untouched

a picture
that required no explanations
no excuses
no prayers
no bandages
no pills
no pounding hearts

a picture
without fear
without a single painful tear
a picture
that I can still look up to
and imagine is real

a picture
that still requires
no makeup
and no makeover

a picture
so powerful
that helps me
try to understand
the cycles of nature
and try to be ok with it
and try to still see beauty in it
no matter how fragile
no matter how sudden
no matter how harsh
no matter how dark
no matter how troublesome

a picture
that flies high

with my uncle's free laughter.